“Selfie-obsessed, avocado toast-chomping, snowflake!” “Property-hoarding, climate-change complacent, bed-blocker!” “Read a book!” “OK. Boomer!” The combination of ever-increasing speed in technological change, rising life expectancy, a period of relative economic stability, the hard-fought-for (yet still unfinished) liberation struggles, the loosening of traditional, restrictive social ties (for many), and the decline of social mobility, means that it is little wonder intergenerational relationships have also been under some … Continue reading VIDEO: can we talk?
How am I supposed to explore domination when someone begging for my “big black dick” is gonna snap me out of it? Continue reading Read: Kink while black
On World Aids Day 2017, BlackOutUK issues a call for us to work together to end HIV. Join the conversation Continue reading Watch: Let’s end HIV together
I have learned from experience that this kind of argument with white men is generally futile, that any point you make is seldom applied within the winder context of inequality. It is applied only to an individual’s hurt. Continue reading READ: Unlearning Daddy Lessons
I was born this way, but I didn’t always know it. . .My gay age starts; my gay birth if you will; from when I began to accept my sexual identity more deeply; when I began a more complex negotiation and linkage of what I desired sexually and my role in society. Continue reading Read: Born this way? My gay age
Latest instalment of @BlkoutUK look at #DaddyIssues – Junior Joye @wetlikesweat shares his take on effective step-parenting Continue reading Watch: The problems with step-parents
We can’t help who we fall in love with and kids or no kids . . .can we? Continue reading Read: Uncle D’s Dilemmas – A problem shared
Do I feel that I have to work harder and smarter than not only our white peers but also our straight peers, to be considered merely good enough? Do we actually have to be thrice as good Continue reading Read: Thrice as Good
Watch: Watch that age-gap! @RogueMScott on age-gap relationships. Let him know what you think Continue reading Watch: Watch that age-gap!
I never really got the ‘Daddy’ thing. I generally dated guys who were of a similar age to me while looking to older black gay men as potential mentors; gathering hints as to how to navigate growing up in a racist, hetero-sexist, unequal city. Looking for clues as to how my life might be in the future. It had simply never occurred to me that … Continue reading Read: But wait . . . did he just call me ‘Daddy?