It is horrifying how casual members of a community can be at the mistreatment of one of their own, as horrifying as that moment when you first come out and discover that gay men are far, far from enlightened Continue reading Read: First they came for the guys in heels
In August we were pleased to work with Black Thrive to host the first in our series of Delicious Deliberations, where we gather Black LGBTQI people to break bread and share in conversations that matter, about our past, present and future. Listen to our discussions on health and wellbeing for Black LGBTQ people in Lambeth and contribute your views Continue reading Listen: Is Being Black and Queer bad for your health? The Report back
Meet Mr Right (or Mr Right Now) on an app, or at the club? Read Uncle D’s latest dilemma Continue reading Read: Uncle D’s Dilemmas – Dating app or the club?
Calling out and making gestures are tools in the social justice armoury. They are less important tools though than real acts of solidarity and protest Continue reading Read: Got your copy of Vogue yet?
Black gay men’s sex lives are much more than a NHS statistic or risk category. We deserve to make choices for free, healthy, fulfilling sex lives. There are educational and medical tools that may help some make this a reality. We want PrEP. . . Now Continue reading Read: PrEP Now
How do we deal with the fear that we’re f**king racists, and how do we deal with the reality? Continue reading Read: F**king Racists
I have learned from experience that this kind of argument with white men is generally futile, that any point you make is seldom applied within the winder context of inequality. It is applied only to an individual’s hurt. Continue reading READ: Unlearning Daddy Lessons
Chudi and Noel, the winners of our ‘Moonlight’ competition, review the film that everyone is talking about I had seen the trailer for Moonlight months beforehand and had been eagerly waiting its release ever since . I was elated when … Continue reading Read: Winning ‘Moonlight’
Latest instalment of @BlkoutUK look at #DaddyIssues – Junior Joye @wetlikesweat shares his take on effective step-parenting Continue reading Watch: The problems with step-parents
We can’t help who we fall in love with and kids or no kids . . .can we? Continue reading Read: Uncle D’s Dilemmas – A problem shared
Do I feel that I have to work harder and smarter than not only our white peers but also our straight peers, to be considered merely good enough? Do we actually have to be thrice as good Continue reading Read: Thrice as Good
Watch: Watch that age-gap! @RogueMScott on age-gap relationships. Let him know what you think Continue reading Watch: Watch that age-gap!