Category: Daddy Issues

  • VIDEO: can we talk?

    “Selfie-obsessed, avocado toast-chomping, snowflake!” “Property-hoarding, climate-change complacent, bed-blocker!” “Read a book!” “OK. Boomer!” The combination of ever-increasing speed in technological change, rising life expectancy, a period of relative economic stability, the hard-fought-for (yet still unfinished) liberation struggles, the loosening of traditional, restrictive social ties (for many), and the decline of social mobility, means that it…

  • Read: Kink while black

    How am I supposed to explore domination when someone begging for my “big black dick” is gonna snap me out of it?

  • Watch: Let’s end HIV together

    On World Aids Day 2017, BlackOutUK issues a call for us to work together to end HIV. Join the conversation

  • READ: Unlearning Daddy Lessons

    READ: Unlearning Daddy Lessons

    I have learned from experience that this kind of argument with white men is generally futile, that any point you make is seldom applied within the winder context of inequality. It is applied only to an individual’s hurt.

  • Read: Born this way? My gay age

    Read: Born this way? My gay age

    I was born this way, but I didn’t always know it. . .My gay age starts; my gay birth if you will; from when I began to accept my sexual identity more deeply; when I began a more complex negotiation and linkage of what I desired sexually and my role in society.

  • Watch: The problems with step-parents

    Watch: The problems with step-parents

    Latest instalment of @BlkoutUK look at #DaddyIssues – Junior Joye @wetlikesweat shares his take on effective step-parenting

  • Read: Uncle D’s Dilemmas – A problem shared

    Read: Uncle D’s Dilemmas – A problem shared

    We can’t help who we fall in love with and kids or no kids . . .can we?

  • Read: Thrice as Good

    Read: Thrice as Good

    Do I feel that I have to work harder and smarter than not only our white peers but also our straight peers, to be considered merely good enough? Do we actually have to be thrice as good